11 Jul 2011


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I found this story the other day in an old file. I received it via e-mail in 2003 and I kept it because the message is true. Hope you are blessed by this too.

          There was once a little girl who had a bad temper. Her mother gave her a bag of nails and told her that every time she lost her temper, she must hammer a nail into the back fence.
          The first day the girl had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as she learned to control her anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. She discovered it was easier to hold her temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
          Finally, the day came when the girl didn’t lose her temper at all. She told her mother about it and her mother suggested that she now pull out one nail for each day that she was able to hold her temper.
          The days passed and the young girl was finally able to tell her mother that all the nails were gone. The mother took her daughter by the hand and led her to the fence.
          She said, “You have done well, my daughter, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.” You can put a knife in a person and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
          Friends are very rare jewels indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us. CHERISH YOUR FRIENDS.

          **You are my friend and I am honored. And, please forgive me if I ever left a hole in your fence.**

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